After taking some time and doing some research, I believe BDSMLR is the closest one to Tumblr. At this moment in time there are a lot of things that would need to get better and fixed since it’s on the buggy-side at the moment but they are working hard on it. I’ll see how it goes. Other platforms that I’ve tried always had some major downfall which made me decide not to go there.
I will not be deleting this Tumblr blog unless Tumblr makes me. You can still message me here or on BDSMLR.